No Good Men

What are the reasons this is the catch cry of such a massive number of women? There are ample sites, YouTube channels etc out there detailing why this phenomenon is growing. Whilst there is very good informative info if you look hard enough. There is also a lot of angry anti-male and anti-female raving. Feel free to watch professional experts in this detailed video or just skip to the main points below it.

In general, the main reasons are;

The Hard Truth

I tried to write this in as balanced way as possible. I tried to sugar coat many of the issues with generalities and gender balancing where I could but realised sometimes, you just have to say it how you see it.

The real answer is ludicrously simple. If you’re the Top level Alpha RomCom star, you’ll be the Sex Toy for the hordes, you’ll have the coin and all the FWB’s you’ll want, you won’t risk losing it all, you’ll just pretend you will to keep it wet.

Normal men watch this daily, while getting sick to death of being treated as unworthy, second rate, dangerous tyrannical pariahs, with ATM stamped on their forehead, up until a particular female decides she wants children right now, but only once she’s done everything she wanted to do.

Most men today, understand most females regard men as disposable sperm donors, both for play and child siring. Men are commonly understanding they’re a convenience. All Western men know divorce or sexless marriages are far more likely than successful mutually respectful marriages, both, almost universally instigated by dissatisfied women.

Every Western World man can’t help but know if he sires offspring, everything he’s worked for, even long before he met her, automatically transfers to the offspring’s mother. Anything she doesn’t get take will go to litigious lawyers. They also know they will be paying, in most cases, far more in Child Support than the FULL cost of raising the children, especially if the mother decides she just doesn’t want to continue the career she thought would be so easy to dominate. The older men are, the worse this gets because there’s no possibility to recover later.

Every Western man knows the children will, more often than not, be used as a political football ensuring he does whatever she demands. Most females won’t treat any male at or near their own level as a partner until she’s ready for insemination. Today, most men know they will only become considered partner material once she’s “Clucky” or she’s taking control of his assets. Men that accept the risks of going into a marriage thoroughly understand if they don’t satisfy the female, she will almost certainly throw him overboard from what is now fully, HER SHIP. Combine this with all the PC garbage men are expected to perform, being fully attentive to the empowered woman’s feelings, while conversely knowing the Catch 22 he faces. He’s told he’s supposed to be both strong, yet sensitive, if he does show his feelings, respect will be lost but if he doesn’t show sensitivity, he’s a misogynistic tyrant. Success is logically impossible.

Most men today are growing to understand once the initial child bearing is completed, sex will be a chore he has to earn then over time. What was a mutually enjoyable activity soon becomes detested work for her that has to be earned by aligning the moon and stars. Men today have seen how ‘Accepted husbands” go back to the “class of male” she’d never have accepted without her ticking clock. At best, that relegates him to a solo quiet porn session or more typically, cheated on or thrown out, watching his prize car driving down the street with it’s new “WasHis” registration plate.

Sure, as men, we’re genetically programmed to want to care for and protect our female and kids, so a number of men are still falling into the Venus Fly Trap. Men who think for themselves are now heavily weighing up the risk/value ratio.

Combine this with the entitled expectation of a huge proportion of females today who want to control all interactions, have their own career, push that aside at the exact time she wants, make every decision in the marriage, then blame him for her unhappiness. At least half of young men today have watched this through their own viewport.

What’s the cause?

The real, very simple answer is honest self analysis. Take a long, hard look at yourself, with genuinely open eyes. Ask yourself what you bring to a relationship as well as what you really want. Rate yourself out of 10 in:

  • Looks and physical shape
  • Adventurousness
  • Education
  • Loyalty and genuine empathy
  • Financial prospects
  • Emotional expectations
  • Preparedness to give what your partner wants
  • Your Active Listening skills (listening isn’t remaining silent till it’s your turn, then criticise and demand more)

Once you’ve done that honestly (no, you’re not a 8+ in all items, go look again), then you have a better picture of what type of partner is really likely to have interest in you, other than just Boombaroomba.

Get real, no-one is just going to love you for who you are. You are a package. You know every box to be ticked in the package you want! Some packages are a realistic complimentary fit. They are the packages you should be looking for, Not the George Clooney or Brad Pitt. Of those hundreds of guys you rejected there were probably a few you didn’t deserve but they weren’t the total package were they? Most didn’t get past a coffee. And of course, you are the ideal package, huh? You’ve been reading so in Cosmo, seeing it on every PC TV show and hearing it from your girlfriends, yeah? Are you still seriously wondering where the Good Men Are? If so, best of luck!

How do we fix it?

How about we all try an old exercise of meeting people and accepting them for who they are instead of immediate judging or shaming every element. Maybe also try looking in a mirror and listening to the uncomplimentary things you’ve been told, Oh, yeah, sorry. If a man said those things, he’s definitely a narcissistic, misogynist, tyrant. The major shift in the last 20 years is today, men aren’t even allowed to express an opinion.

THIS APPLIES TO ALL GENDERS, even Tractors who identify as Attack Helicopters!

We’ve all seen the funny videos of;

  • The 50yo 150kg unemployed lady wanting a 30yo 80kg fit healthy man earning at least $60k and,
  • The Fat old broke guy who got taken to the cleaners wanting the nubile 25yo bikini model

Now ask yourselves whether you’re deliberately setting your young girls up so they have no hope of success. That would after all prove your theories men are inherently bad, wouldn’t it? With this brainwashed upbringing, what chance do you think these girls have of forming an ongoing equality based relationship with a male.

Sure, I’m going to grow up respecting a Male partner, aren’t I?

Yeah, I had to include just one of the not so bad ones as an example and showing the effects of all the crap the empowered female is taught. I have embedded this video on other pages. That’s because it covers the interrelationship of several related topics. Even if you’ve seen it a while ago, it’s probably worth reviewing while considering the why there are No Good Men.

I personally, now fall marginally into the MGTOW category, not because I hate women, on the contrary, I’d love a great life-long relationship. With today’s double standards and legal bias and been screwed for large amounts already, it’s just not worth it. I’ve read and watched enough of the angry INCEL and MGTOW material to know that’s not what I want. I also won’t expose myself to the risks of the new legislation and AVO’s being handed out like lolly bags, so, I’ve now made a constructive decision to just ENJOY my own home, my classic cars and motor bikes, fly my airplane, go diving and 4WD touring etc on my own, with friends. A few of my friends met through business and clubs are on the same path. Of the guys I know in the age range of 48-65 that have either bought their own home or have a good income etc, more than half will never repartner.

This is a Dual-Edged sword. Women today are educated to want the cream of the crop. They’re equally educated to give very little in return. The demands today are for the chosen males to place their balls in a females left hand while putting a carving knife in their right. Ladies, this seriously diminishes your chances. Is it your intent to have become this brainwashed? If you ask your girlfriends or worse, the Hard Line Feminists, at least now, you know why.

Please, as individuals, think for yourself. That’s what men are now doing and voting with their feet and cheque books.

This is my firm, researched belief why there are NO GOOD MEN!

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